Hmmmm, interestingly enough not many of you had much to say last week about the current political season we are in the midst of here in our nation....
Well maybe you had some thoughts about it but didn't feel strongly enough about to write anything for posterity's sake...
i understand... i am quite tired of all the "noise" as well.... why add more to it right?
Except.... i have to say, that the more i hear said about the current state of "race relations" in our nation i find myself fluctuating between a couple extremes.
On the one hand depending on who you listen to, we are "so close" to being over race... and on the other hand things have never been worse because people have never been more oblivious to the disparities between people of varying ethnic and racial backgrounds.
It's weird, it's frustrating, it's disturbing, it's disappointing... it's making me crazy listening to a bunch of people who can't seem to agree on whether or not having a free trade policy is the right or best thing for our nation try to tackle something as delicate and deeply problematic from a historical sense as the issue of race.
There is one part of me that wishes everybody would get as honest as i think a couple of people who have had a few portions of their "sermons" played repeatedly on the radio, T.V. and the Internet. At least then perhaps we'd know where everybody really stood and could stop the silly posturing.
i know that may sound odd but the fact is, when we have a majority of people indicating they don't really have a problem with the issue of race, then have to live through the last couple of weeks, it seems we do have a problem and a pretty big one at that!
Let's just admit it, go from there and work it out.
Strange, the last thing anyone wants to be accused of is being prejudice or having "racist" thoughts or feelings... it's really weird how adverse we seem to admitting our human-ness in this aspect of life. Is it a thing good to dislike people simply based on ethnicity or racial background... obviously not. But a bigger problem, is to be shamed into NOT talking about your honest feelings because it just really shows how big a jerk you really are.
Hello!?! Welcome to the club.... we're all jerks!
Anyway, the talk about race over the last few weeks has been disappointing, not because we are having the talk but rather because it seems to be more about people making statements with little to no difference making discussion... at all. What do you think?
27.3.08
How NOT to Talk About Racial Issues in the U.S. 101
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1 comment:
I'm gonna take you down memory lane a bit in the annals of pop culture. The reason we do not talk about the race thing is that not only are we hammered with diversity by people who do not understand that diversity and homogenization are not the same thing but we ARE afraid of perception.
We want to be progressive like Lionel and Meathead, but when the discussion happens, our inner George and Archie come out. Fascinating that Edith and Louise just chatted about their hubbies in the kitchen...but I'll save that observation for another day when you post on gender relations.
Deep inside, I'm sure there are black men who feel a touch of the anger Obama's pastor let loose. And there are a few white folk who are scared or offended by that anger.
However, neither of us had better share that. Admit to anger or an eye roll and a politically correct culture assignes the unclean label on you that is one who is not progressive.
Racism will not end in my lifetime. Neither will sexism. Hell, we are further away from harmony today than we were in the 70's. We took steps back in the name of progress and an unwillingness to offend.
When I was a kid, I once got a wound in the playground that festered and got infected. It got that way because I did not show anyone the wound. I ignored it out of fear and in the vain and childlike hope it would go away. Nah! It just got worse. My grandmother discovered the puss filled wound and took me to the washroom where she grabbed a hard bristle brush and scraped and scrubbed it until it bled, because only when the wound was reopened could the bleeding...and the healing begin.
We could learn a lot from the Kentucky hillbilly I call grandma. We have a wound that we have ignored in the hopes it would go away. It's getting worse. We gotta have the convo and we gotta let it all hang out and let the bleeding...and the healing happen. But we won't. To get the brush out is uncomfortable and we don't want that. Especially not in suburbia. The image empire trumps common sense and reality these days.
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